What does it mean to live a good life?
Simple question.
Complex answer. Perhaps it’s living mindfully?
Knowing your purpose and values?
Cultivating creativity?
Overcoming fears and anxiety?
Helping others?
Or understanding the difference between being wealthy and being rich?
It’s a vast subject, but perhaps the most important decisions you'll ever make, are whether to marry, who to marry, and whether to have kids.
None of these are taught to us.
How could they be?
You aren’t able to distil major life decisions into an equation, or even a broad principle.
They're so important, but so hard to teach.
This is why awareness around high-quality decision-making is so important to lead a good life.
People have different personalities, goals, experiences, and levels of chance and serendipity, all of which make universal truths hard to find and difficult to teach.
Just last week, a friend rejected my recommended scientific personality test, in favour of a horoscope!
Regardless of technological development, the best answer for many big questions will always be,
“You’ve got to figure it out for yourself.”
A lot of things work like that.
Some of the most important topics are the hardest to teach, and experience is the only school.
Here are some others:
There are no easy rules to learn and memorise – you’ve got to figure those out for yourself.
Mindset matters as does self-awareness around your own fears, emotions, wants and triggers.
For me, a good life is measured by progress.
The quest to improve myself, as an end in itself.
To use the wisdom I've learnt from today’s learning opportunities to live a better tomorrow.
Comparisons are not made with other people, but only with prior versions of myself.
I follow my inner scorecard.
This gives me optimism to hope we'll all be a little bit better tomorrow, than today.
What I'm reading #43: How to define your personal values in life